If you’re ready to apply yoga philosophy to your own life—or teach it with clarity and feeling—my classes and workshops create space to sharpen your thinking, steady your inner life, and connect your practice to what matters now.
The Power of Connection
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Greetings Reader - In the Mahābhārata, the epic story that surrounds the Bhagavad-gītā, Arjuna and his brothers, collectively known as the Pandavas, faced isolation and hardship after losing their kingdom in a rigged game of dice. Forced into exile, they found solace and strength in their bond as brothers and in their relationships with allies like Krishna and sages like Vyasa. Trust, shared values, and support from their community gave the Pandavas the resilience to endure their trials and eventually reclaim their rightful kingdom. The story of the Pandava’s survival against all odds illustrates how true power is not isolated in individual might but is found in collective support and wisdom shared within a community. Being connected to a community of truth-seekers is one of the most important elements of our yoga practice. After all, yoga means “connection.” In times of growing tension and uncertainty, however, fear and isolation can become a breeding ground for the opposite of yoga: disconnection. A strong sense of connection, along with a clear vision of the interconnectedness of all things, is the starting point of fearlessness. But when fear takes hold, our sense of connection evaporates, curiosity gives way to narrow-mindedness, and we gravitate toward ideologically simple answers that increase feelings of distrust and isolation. It’s at these moments that ideologies built on division find fertile ground. But there’s an antidote—personal connections cultivated through shared values and genuine conversations. Imagine a garden that survives not by the strength of a single tree but through the interwoven roots of many. These roots support each other beneath the surface, unseen yet essential, preventing the earth from eroding and nurturing growth even when storms rage above. This is how relationships grounded in trust work: they anchor us, remind us that we’re not alone, and allow us to withstand the winds of uncertainty together. By contrast, rigid ideologies thrive on isolation—social, emotional, and intellectual. The isolation of the mind is an especially insidious condition where doubt and self-censorship bloom, cutting off our ability to question, explore, or feel safe in our expression of the truth as we see it. In this climate, cultivating genuine relationships becomes an act of both self-care and collective resistance. It’s in connection that we find space to explore our own thinking, to test and clarify our values, and to remind each other that there is strength and hope beyond what we fear. Where fear contracts, curiosity expands; it moves us to ask, to learn, and to listen. Curiosity is the opposite of fear. When we lean into curiosity within trusted spaces, we open a path away from the reactive and into the reflective. This is where growth happens, where doubt is met with understanding and worry is met with reassurance. Connecting with people whose values resonate with our own doesn’t mean only seeking out those who echo our thoughts. Rather, it involves nurturing conversations where values align but perspectives might diverge, allowing exploration without defensiveness. Just as a balanced asana practice calls us to engage with discomfort while grounded in breath, dialogue rooted in trust can help us stretch beyond our comfort zones while feeling supported and safe. As we face an uncertain future, consider this: what can we do today to fortify our minds and spirits? The answer often begins with something deceptively simple—reaching out. Call a friend, write to a relative, or arrange a gathering with those who nourish your inner life. Invite conversations that encourage openness and remind you that strength lies in our connections. Remember, we're like that network of roots: interwoven, resilient, and ever-growing. With each conversation and each shared moment of curiosity, we build a foundation of trust that sustains us all. Wishing you all good fortune, Hari-k P.S. – Here's a great resource for learning how to lead conversations around shared values and encourage curiosity within conversations: Interfaith America’s Shared Values Facilitation Guide. |
Hari-kirtana das
If you’re ready to apply yoga philosophy to your own life—or teach it with clarity and feeling—my classes and workshops create space to sharpen your thinking, steady your inner life, and connect your practice to what matters now.
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